It so happened that mom tells about her work and internal problems only to her sister and friend. There is another person who tells all mom and dad. And if I ask something, then they say “yes it doesn’t matter”, “yes to you”. How can I be if there is no one to communicate with at all?

Yuri, it seems that your family and your loved ones are very important for you. You have a desire and strength to support them, and you want them to also demonstrate an interest in communicating with you.

If your loved ones have not yet shown interest in your emotional support, then try to support them with business. Look in everyday life: what support, in your opinion, they lack and what you could make of this? For example, people usually react very warmly when they notice that someone is attentive to their deeds, habits, hobbies.

If you have the opportunity, then you can come to your parents to help them with some business that it is difficult for them to do alone. For example, if a mother collects cups, then you can try to find out more about what she chooses

and give her a suitable. If dad needs help in some kind of activity, he will also be glad to your participation, which will additionally fasten and develop your relationship. This will be the first step to ensure that your authority in the family grew up and listen to you.

If you live with them, then first try to increase the share of your contribution to the solution of household chores